As I indicated in the First Installment, my search for the Why of my business resulted in a first approximation that was more of a What than a Why. This forced me back to the drawing boards with a closer reading of Simon Sinek’s “Start with Why,” and an in-person hearing and questioning of Simon Sinek (albeit before 300 other people).
My closer look at the Sinek book resulted in my distillation and organization of his key material, which I then put into two Models: the Why-based Model (the approach championed by Sinek) and the Why-less Model (that disdained by Sinek).
Here is what I came up with:
The Why Model
1. Excellent companies and individuals act according to a WHY, sometimes even if they don’t articulate it, but why leave that to chance.
2. Most companies instead focus on and act according to WHAT and HOW – the nuts and bolts of their company (their products and services, benefits for customers, and their unique selling proposition). Only when you start with the WHY and then move on to HOW and WHAT is the process optimized.
3. As owner of your company, you should intentionally articulate and develop the intended WHY of your company in line with you, your history, and your predisposition.
4. Articulate this WHY in writing and promulgate it through your company and its culture, so that you don’t suffer from Apple’s “Steve-Jobs leaving Syndrome” when you, the charismatic leader may take a leave of absence or be away from the company for some period of time.
5. By embodying your WHY you induce and stimulate trust and inspiration in others (customers, employees, other CEO’s) due to aligned goals of yourself and followers (for instance, customers, who will pay a premium for products and services and endure inconvenience, as opposed to customers who patronize companies because of price or promotions (manipulation)).
6. This trust and inspiration that is generated is due to alignment of goals and aspirations, which are centered in the limbic part of the brain (also the seat of emotion and motivation); this powerful connection is sometimes elusive to discuss, because the limbic lobes evolved prior to the cerebral cortex portion of the brain and therefore are only loosely connected to language centers. When your WHY aligns with another person’s WHY, limbic lobes align, and a deep, powerful connection is made. As will be seen later, there is a way to sneak up on the limbic lobe and articulate your WHY.
7. Finding WHY is a process of discovery, not invention. Our archaeology of behavior in past and current business situations tells us about our passion, our deepest values, and what inspires us: in short, our WHY.
8. Particular types of individuals are attracted by your WHY and can be characterized as those innovators and early adopters that are the “left 15%” of the bell curve of individuals and who are particularly influential and willing to pay premium prices for products and services.
9. By knowing your WHY, you are able to better identify the HOW and WHAT for your company.
A. Your products/services will be fined-tuned
B. Employees will have been carefully hired with respect to their strong suits (HOW’s) and (WHAT’s)
10. By articulating your WHY, you will monitor that everyone is acting in accordance with it; if there is drift, you will know how to get back on course.
11. Implications for knowing your WHY, articulating it, and communicating throughout your business are:
A. Loyal customers
B. Higher ROI
C. Loyal employees
D. More innovation
E. Able to sustain success
F. Lead their industries–have disproportionate influence
G. Leaders and followers act for the good of the whole
H. Able to withstand market changes in that they know the WHY of the business (transportation), rather than the WHAT of the business (trains)
The WHY-less Model
1. No WHY.
2. Leader/Manager by title, not by leadership, inspiration.
3. Manipulation (vs. inspiration); rewards and punishers unrelated to inherent WHY.
4 No diffusion – don’t appeal to limbic brain, don’t reach the far left of the diffusion curve (early adopters, connectors).
5. Unclear with WHY; therefore, unclear with HOW and WHAT.
6. Never had WHY—if their business gets off track, no compass to “direct them back home”
7. Implications for their business are unclear: marketing, hiring, product/service, appropriate business model change unclear when business environment changes (they think their business is trains, not transportation).
8. Vulnerable to downturns in the economy and industry changes.
From this summarization of “Start with Why,” two things stood out as key for “Finding my Why”:
1. The Why part of us (goal-direction, purpose) is located in the limbic part of the brain, and therefore it is not easy to articulate our Why, because that part of the brain is poorly connected with the language centers found in the cerebral cortex. In spite of Sinek’s insistence that it’s simple to discover your Why, it isn’t really straightforward, since you have to sneak up on it, rather than capture it directly.
2. Finding our Why comes from looking backward. Sinek’s suggestion means that one way we can discover our Why is by looking backward for a pattern of passions, inspirations, and “peak experiences,” that have occurred over our work history and are the most powerful things that motivate us.
At Sinek’s live presentation for the Columbus (IN) Chamber of Commerce, I was able to question him during the general session. My question took the form, as follows.
I believe your Why (meaning Sinek’s) as described in your book is “inspiring others to do the things that inspire them.” I have two questions. Will your Why ever change? and Do other people’s Why’s change over time.
His answer was an emphatic No! to each (though I think it was too emphatic — there are circumstances that could modulate your Why). Nevertheless I think his answer contains a lot truth. Almost like one’s personality test results, the WHY doesn’t seem to waver over the adult life of an individual. I took his answer as a guide. Look at consistent patterns that appear in your life where what you were doing was characterized by an overriding sense of purpose, passion, mission — even a sense of a peak experience. Identify those times and why and what you were doing then and you will have hints as to your Why. At those times in our lives we may have been unobservant as to the power that was there and passed those experiences by without learning from them.
Sinek’s in-person answer reinforced some of his “looking backward” suggessions in his book. To sneak up on my Why, my next goal (in Part 3) is to create a mini-biography of those instances in my life when I was inspired — when a purpose, a passion, a mission were present and see how they resonate with the business I am now pursuing and can help me identify what my Why is.
Next: An archaeology of behavior
John Gifford publishes IndySmallBiz.com, as well as providing consulting and implementation in the areas of strategic planning, writing, brokering strategic relationships, and boutique marketing. His background has included academia, publishing and conference facilitation related to the 55+ market, and sales and marketing for several publications.